A Fetlife Friend wrote to me after I had posted a few pictures of a date with Dreamwalker, his belt and his Sjambok. I imagine the pictures were quite shocking to some people who saw them, although I just love every mark he puts on me. They are his marks and they belong to him which gives me a tender loving feeling. I can’t even begin to explain the psychology in that, but I know that I love being marked by him. The friend asked me the following question:
“Hi Gs your butt looks very painful. I like it. any way wanted to ask what after care procedures do you take after such beating?”
Here is my answer:
Well…..Just cuddling for a bit. I don’t really need much after care as the before during and all the time care is there. That is the main thing. He gives me so much love and affection all the time that his intentions or feelings towards me are never ever in question.
This got me to thinking that I don’t tell you Dreamwalker how much care you do pour on me and how that actually translates for me. You need never be concerned in anything we do because that care is stamped onto my heart and soul just as the Sjambok is stamped onto my skin. That care is what allows me to put my wellbeing in your hands, and honestly my love, I trust you with my life. If you ever did tell me to jump out of a ten story building, I would. I would know that you had a good reason for telling me to do that. I am there. I don’t question anything you do to me and with me.
It seems after care is such a huge part of BDSM. I totally get it when playing with a stranger. Yes, I imagine it would be important. I don’t need it with you though, my love. I love to cuddle with you after we make love, but that is something different to me. If we don’t do it, I don’t spend a moments thought on it because you take care of our relationship. You take care of my heart. You take care of me.
I hope the day never comes that I need after care. I hope you keep showering me with your Sadistic Love and your all the time care. I love you so deeply and thank you for your love. You never need seek approval my sweet Dreamwalker, for there is not a man alive that could walk in your shoes.
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